The experience that helps me grow the most is the time when I am bullied because I think differently and physically weak. This dark period of life teach me some important life lessons:
- You can’t please everyone, if you decide to think independently. More accurately, no one will think exactly like you. Embrace the loneliness from this. And grow your mind, being authentic is more important.
- You can blame anyone for laughing at you because you are physically weak. They are bad, but this is also a natural almost primal instinct like action for people to tease the weak. Because they are weak at some point too. Instead of whining like a baby, train your own physique, not to harm others but to make yourself mentally and physically unbeatable.
- Forgive the one that bullies you at some point, see through their weakness for they cannot face their own problems and find happiness anywhere. But can only find some kind of thrill by hurting people. You are better than that.
- You have go through enough dark times, so you know you are mentally strong. You know you have the strength to face other challenges. And you know, thins time you can endure it too.
- You have cried in the dark hours too. You know it is not weak to have emotions and be fragile. But you also know no one will come save you. So let the emotions flow, acknowledge it, than wipe the tears and keep going. There is always an end for the tunnel.
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